Moving the kids: does it require a change to a divorce or timeshare (custody) order in Florida?

We live in a mobile society, and some states, particularly states like Florida, have very transient populations.  Post-divorce moves are very common.  But how do you deal with the idea of moving the kids away from the other parent?

Well, first, let’s deal with some terms.  In Florida, we don’t say “custodial parent” or “CP” vs. “non-custodial-parent” or “NCP.”  The terms seemed to make “custodial parents” think they were more in control of the children, that they had veto power over the other parent.  So, in Florida, we say, “the parent with greater timeshare,” in other words, more overnights with the kids.  (I’m sure you’re thinking, what happens when parents have the same amount of timeshare, which seems to be the trend in Florida?  Good question, but I’ll have to leave it for another article.)

So what happens when the parent with greater timeshare wants to move the children away from the residence where they lived most of the time when the divorce (or paternity case) happened?  If the move is less than fifty miles as the crow flies, no problem.  Florida law says that moving children doesn’t constitute a “substantial change of circumstances,” the legal standard necessary to take a parent to court to change timeshare papers.

But what if the move is over 50 miles?  Problem.  Big problem.  REALLY big problem, because Florida law doesn’t like it when one parent moves kids away from the other parent.  In fact, it requires the permission of the other parent or a court order to move kids more than 50 miles, and the procedure for it is strict and technical.  I’ll post on this site about the procedure when I get a chance.

So, bottom line, any move that takes the kids less than fifty miles can’t require a court order change.  In other words–and read this carefully minority timeshare (non-custodial) parents–if the kids get moved less than 50 miles, there is nothing the other parent can do, even if it now takes an hour to pick up the kids from school or the kids have to wake up at 5 a.m. to make it to school or it’s too far to take kids to baseball practice, etc.

I’ll add this, though: a move of less than 50 miles can still be a “substantial change of circumstances” (and thus the minority timeshare parent can file to change the parenting time) if the move involves more than just moving.  By that I mean, what if the kids are moving from an “A” school to a “D” school?  What if the kids are moving to a high-crime neighborhood?  What if the kids have been forced to move ten times within a year, but all the moves are still within the 50-mile radius?  All these things on top of a move can be reasons to allow the minority timeshare parent to file to change the timeshare agreement or order.

But if a move is over 50 miles, the parents must agree using a special procedure or get a court order BEFORE the move can happen.  More on that later.

Call Anton Legal Group before you even think about moving kids after a divorce or paternity order.

Brent

Does Florida Allow for Separation?

This is a question on which even experienced family lawyers disagree.  I guess it’s really a question of semantics.  My answer is sort of a qualified “yes.”

In many states, legal separation is required before you can file for divorce.  That means that a judge has to declare a couple “legally separated” for a certain amount of time before divorce can be filed or granted.  Florida doesn’t have that requirement.  In Florida, the only requirement before a marriage can be dissolved is that one of the spouses live in Florida for six months before filing divorce.  So, in Florida, legal separation isn’t a necessity before divorce.

But we do have something very similar: an “action for support uncconnected with dissolution” is a way to get alimony and/or child support yet still remain married.  But a judge doesn’t have the authority to say, “I declare you legally separated.”

So what’s the point?, you ask.  Why not just file for divorce rather than file for alimony or child support and not get divorced?  Well, there are a couple of good reasons:

1) Maybe the spouse doesn’t want the divorce.  For example, maybe the spouse wants to keep the other spouse’s health insurance or maybe the couple wants to file joint taxes.

2) Maybe the spouses don’t live together, one spouse needs the support, but the spouses have just moved to Florida and don’t yet meet the six-month residency requirement to file divorce.  One spouse could file for separation, where there is no six-month residency require, and get alimony and child support while waiting for the six months divorce residency time to pass.

3) Maybe one spouse just wants some time apart to decide whether a divorce is necessary or possibly get some counseling.  The spouse may file for separation to decide whether divorce is necessary.

Option 3 sounds like the most likely scenario, but it’s actually rare.  As a practical matter, rather than pay alimony to a spouse they’re still married to, most people, if sued for separation, would just counter-sue for divorce.

So does Florida allow for separation?  I’d say yes, but not in the way most people think.

If you’d like to discuss filing a separation action in Florida, call us the Anton Legal Group.

Brent

Uncontested Divorce : Benefit vs. Debt

When deciding to end a marriage, there are a host of decisions from equitable distribution to custody and time sharing.  While this process is commonly drawn out and incredibly complicated, more couples are turning towards Uncontested Divorce.  Uncontested Divorce involves couples that are able to reach an agreement on all separation issues such as spousal support, child support, and division of property without the intervention of the courts or a judge.  There are a host of benefits to and Uncontested Divorce in Tampa Florida particularly:

  • Uncontested Divorce in Tampa may enable both parties to reach more flexible and advantageous terms than in a series of court hearings.
  • An Uncontested Divorce normally is less emotionally taxing on ALL parties involved including children and other family members.  Parents may be able to salvage an amicable relationship for the duration of the raising of children, etc.
  • Usually, Uncontested Divorce in Tampa is less expensive and time consuming than in a Divorce court.

If an Uncontested Divorce can be achieved it is much easier and in most cases the best solution for the dissolution of marriage.  There are however some exceptions to this rule:

  • Abuse or Abandonment
  • Inability to reach an agreement
  • Adultery – one or both spouses are cheating on the other
  • Any other issue that could lead to estrangement

When these scenarios occur, we would recommend that you carry out a contested divorce, but the best choice is always going to be the faster, easier and emotionally less-taxing route with the Uncontested Divorce.

Tampa Uncontested Divorce by the Anton Legal Group

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